Let The Force Within You Lead You To Your Desires

Most people strengthen their egos and not their cores, so they are fearful of doing something new or making fast progress. Their ego is constantly fed and so it expands and overtakes their lives. It’s extremely easy to expand your ego – just do what most people do.

The ego expands when you let the fear take over your life or when you don’t do uncomfortable things that are good for you. For example, if you want to become a leader, but you are scared to speak in public, it means you nourish your ego rather than let your core guide you.  However if you speak in spite of your ego’s protests, it means you are making the right choice that will lead you to whatever goal you have.

The best habit you can get into is doing what’s uncomfortable for your ego but what’s good for you. So if you know that giving money to charity is good but you feel scared to do that because you have very little, that’s a sign you should give.

Everyone knows what’s good and what actions to take to get where you want to go. However those actions might not be comfortable for your ego, so most people convince themselves that they can’t take such actions. Deep inside all the right answers are, so don’t let your ego convince you otherwise.

For example, to be extremely successful, you have to provide massive value, make the right connections and have abundance mindset. This may not be easy to do, so ego fears the change and convinces you not to even attempt to make any changes in your life. This happens so elegantly that you don’t even notice how much harm you make with this decision (or should we call it no decision at all).

To give you an example of how much the ego holds people back, I will tell you about a situation most of you experienced. When you go to any event, especially to the one that can change your life, and the speaker asks a member of audience to stand up and go on stage to have a personal session with the speaker, most people get very fearful and just one or two raise their hands out of hundreds. People know the personal session with an expert will cause a profound change in who they are, but their egos are scared of the attention because who knows, maybe they will make fools out of themselves. So the fear of embarrassment becomes stronger than the desire to improve one’s life. That’s really sad.

Now how can you reduce your ego to such an extent that it does not keep you stuck? There are many things you can do and it’s really worth getting my Ego Class + Report as this program gives all the options of how to eliminate your ego. I will share one way to eliminate your ego, which is to never take actions out of fear because they produce failure and take you further from your goals.

Now some people get confused at this stage. If you are scared to do something, but you still do that, it’s good because you did that inspite of your fear. But if you are scared to do something and so you don’t, it means you let the fear take over you, you are obedient to it. So not taking any action in this situation is the fearful decision.

Or if you are scared of failure so you make some kind of excuse to your friends as to why you might not achieve something, that’s a fearful action. But if you are scared of failure but don’t “insure” yourself, just in case somehting bad happens, that’s a good decision.

When you refuse to take fearful actions, you avoid failure and so you become more confident in your own abilities. That encourages you to take more actions that are uncomfortable but good, and so you make increasingly faster progress towards your desires.

When you take action that is good for you but feels uncomfortable, you open up to more opportunities. So when the action is out of your comfort zone and you still take it, you get on another level where new unseen to you opportunities are. For example, when I attended quite a big event recently (around 200 people attended), I was invited by a speaker to get on the stage to do a role play. It was extremely uncomfortable to go on the stage but I did that because I knew that it will further reduce my ego and let my core shine. Deep inside I knew that that’s exactly what I wanted to do, however the ego still kept me fearful.

Once I went on the stage, half of my fear evaporated. It’s really not as scary as one might think. The audience is impersonal because there are 200 of them. It’s actually less scary than to speak in Toastmasters in front of 30 people. So this fear was such an illusion, and illusions as such keep people stuck sometimes till they die.

So the reason I’m telling you all this is to make you think about whether you let your ego rule your decisions. If you do, that will not allow you to break through to something better. I really (really) hope that after reading this post you will make a decision to not let the feeling of fear or embarrasment stop you. I hope that you will take the right action despite the uncomfortable feeling you get because of your ego.

You will notice that the more right actions you take without letting the ego convince you not to, the more progress you make and the better your life becomes. This is the evidence that you are going the right way and once you see the positive results, nothing will stop you from achieving your goals.

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